Sunday, February 07, 2010

The kinda, sorta courage of her half-assed convictions

It's already everywhere that Sarah Palin — who now says she's open to running for president if it is “the right thing to do for our country and the Palin family” — has a serious hypocrisy problem.  When it was leaked to the Wall Street Journal that White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel had called some Democrats “f---ing retarded” in a closed-door meeting, Palin took to Facebook to criticize him and call for his resignation.  Yet when Rush Limbaugh used the phrase repeatedly — in his case to refer to advocates for the developmentally disabled who he said were having a “retard summit at the White House” — she defended him during an interview with Chris Matthews.

I've seen less written about how this is just par for the course for Palin, who seems to only care about anything for as long as it is politically expedient.  It's been well documented that she has consistently sought federal pork for Alaska, both before and after disingenuously claiming she had turned down money from earmarks, including the funds appropriated to the infamous "Bridge to Nowhere." She signed an executive order backing cap-and-trade emissions limits while governor of Alaska and told Gwen Ifill she supported this strategy for combating climate change during the vice-presidential debates, yet wrote a Washington Post op-ed opposing them when President Obama went to Copenhagen for an international environmental summit.  After very publicly announcing that she was going to reject nearly one-third of the federal economic stimulus money for Alaska on principle, she quietly vetoed only a token 3% of it.

Let's not forget her biggest abandonment: she wanted to be governor of Alaska, until it was no longer convenient and she resigned after serving just two-and-a-half years of her four year term.  I'm just completely baffled as to how anyone thinks that Sarah Palin has a chance of being elected President when she couldn't even stick it out for one term as governor.  It's clear from her actions that Sarah Palin doesn't really care about anything but Sarah Palin (and, to be fair, the members of her immediate family).  Is this kind of political opportunist really the person anyone — even teabaggers and birthers — really want running the country?

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Monday, February 01, 2010

Anti-marriage activist tells gays to "get married"

Hypocritical idiot of the day award goes to Kerry Messer of the Missouri Family Network, who told same-sex couples in Missouri to "get married or live with the status quo." Did he somehow forget the fact that Missouri has a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage? And that his organization helped PASS IT?!?

The context of the quote is a heartbreaking story about Dennis Engelhard, a gay Missouri State Highway Patrolman who was struck by a car and killed in the line of duty on Christmas day, leaving behind his parnter of fifteen years, Kelly Glossip. since then, the state has denied Kelly's request for Dennis's survivor pension benefits, which would be readily given to any opposite-sex spouse. To add insult to injury, the BackStoppers Police and Firefighters Fund — an organization that raises money to help the families of officers killed in the line of duty — has refused to give Kelly any support even though they are USING DENNIS'S DEATH TO RAISE MONEY!!!

The whole situation is disgusting and illustrates just how desperately same-sex couples need laws that will include them in the protections that married opposite-sex couples take for granted. But in terms of sheer hypocrisy, disingenuousness and cold-hearted cruelty, this quote from Mr. Messer — which appeared in an AP story on Dennis and Kelly — just takes the cake.
Kerry Messer, founder and president of conservative Missouri Family Network, said that even in the case of unmarried heterosexual couples, rights defer to blood relatives first.
"Common law marriage doesn't exist in Missouri for a very good reason," he said. "It throws other laws into a tailspin and muddies every other policy. The state says 'get married or live with the status quo.' That's true for gays and heterosexuals."

Hear that, Kelly? If you wanted to be protected in case your partner died while serving the state, you and Dennis should have gotten married. Except you couldn't. Kerry Messer and the voters of Missouri — who Dennis spent his career protecting — made sure of that.

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Saturday, November 14, 2009

Attacking Tax-Exemptions for Churches a Lose-Lose Proposition

(Originally posted on The Bilerico Project.)

On November 4, the day after marriage in Maine was repealed by yet another church-backed ballot initiative, a gay activist in Tennessee started a Facebook page dedicated to revoking tax-exempt status from the churches that participated. In a week, he gathered over 60,000 fans, all of them eager to make anti-equality churches pay for their sins. But there's a big problem with their plan: The churches didn't do anything wrong.

I know. A year ago, after Prop 8 passed, I was eager to do the exact same thing. Then I did some research into the finer details of tax law. You know what? The law is some tricky shit. The rules that ban charities from backing a candidate in an election don't apply the same way to ballot measures. And even if we could prove that a church went over the vague spending limits that apply, we'd end up giving anti-equality churches a battering ram to use against us for the next two decades. I can see the headlines: "Gay activists destroy church over same-sex marriage." How's that going to play in Peoria?

Churches - or any 501(c)(3) - can support or oppose ballot measures

There's a lot of confusion about what churches - and other non-profit organizations - can or can't do and still retain their tax-exempt status. The tax code is very clear that 501(c)(3) organizations cannot support or oppose candidates for public office. It is also clear that 501(c)(3) organizations can engage in issue lobbying, as long as this lobbying doesn't constitute a "substantial" part of the organization's activities.

That's where the clarity ends, however. What constitutes "substantial?" How do you define "lobbying?" And how does this all apply to the churches that backed Prop 8 and Question 1?

Well, the answer to the "substantial" question is murky, and there are two different tests a non-profit can use, but generally, the limit seems to be somewhere between 5-20% of budget, depending on the size of the organization. What constitutes lobbying is also not completely clear, but for this purpose, the IRS has decided that supporting or opposing ballot measures are included as lobbying.

That means any 501(c)(3) organization - including churches - can legally spend 5-20% of their budget supporting or opposing a ballot measure and not put their tax-exempt status at risk. So, unless someone can prove that a church went over their spending limits, there is no chance that the IRS will revoke a church's tax-exemption just for backing Prop 8 or Question 1.

Attacking churches turns off moderate voters

So what if we did find a church that went over its spending limits and were able to successfully lobby the IRS to revoke its tax-exempt status? What exactly would we be winning?

A victory would definitely be a warning to other churches: if you don't play by these rules, we'll get you. But if most churches that gave to Prop 8 and Question 1 are already playing by those rules, that's not a huge benefit for our side. Churches that aren't involved in ballot questions would have an example of the perils of politics, but would also get a primer on how to participate and keep their tax-exemption, so that could be a wash.

One thing we'd get out of having a church's tax-exempt status revoked is revenge. Revenge for all the rights we've had revoked by Prop 8 and Question 1. It would be hugely satisfying in the same way that it's satisfying when a kid who has been bullied turns around and lands a punch square on the jaw of his or her tormentors. After being so ruthlessly bullied by homophobic churches, it would be so sweet to get one chance to bully back.

But at what price revenge? One of the more successful tactics used by religious opponents of equality is perpetuating the myth that same-sex marriage (or even anti-discrimination laws) will infringe on churches' ability to operate according to their beliefs. Marriage equality, they claim, will force churches to recognize marriages that they do not believe are valid, force them to participate in same-sex wedding ceremonies and even censor their religious teachings that oppose homosexuality. The National Organization for Marriage even includes loss of tax-exempt status as one of the talking points posted on their web site.

The idea that same-sex marriage will force churches to abandon their beliefs is one that repels the middle-of-the-road voters we need to reach to win at the ballot box. NOM and the Heritage Foundation are already trumpeting a situation in New Jersey where a Methodist organization refused to let a lesbian couple rent a "public" beachfront pavilion for a civil union ceremony, then lost their property tax exemption on the pavilion after the couple complained. Imagine the field day they'd have if marriage activists were successful in getting a church's entire tax-exempt status revoked! They'd portray it as the church simply speaking out about their beliefs and then being persecuted for it. And, sadly, it would work.

As much as I would love to stick it to the churches and organizations that have been so active in denying us our rights, it just seems like a distraction and waste of time, at best, and potentially harmful at worst. Going after the churches would satisfy a deep emotional need to get revenge on those who have done us wrong, but ultimately, would get us no closer to true equality. Let's take the high road here and focus on what we can do to win, rather than how we can punish our opponents.

Besides, conventional wisdom says winning is the best revenge and that it's a dish best served cold. Winning marriage a few years down the road, as I know we will, will be the best revenge of all.

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Friday, November 13, 2009

Separated at Birth? Lady and Amy

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Gaga. Ah! AH! AHHHHHH!!!

Is anyone else as freaked out by Lady Gaga's anime contact lenses as I am?



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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

New Yorkers: The Onion more important than breathing

Sound like a headline from The Onion, doesn't it? But it's true: In a poll of 100 New Yorkers published in the November 16 issue of New York, 90 people said they'd be willing to pay for The Onion if it wasn't free, but only 55 said they'd pay for "air." So, depending on overlap, 35-45 people would pay for humor, but not to breathe.

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Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Stop being nice; Start making a difference!

"We are past the moment when you can claim support of me and other LGBT folks you know and love and yet still stand with those who deny us marriage. To not support marriage equality, right here and right now, means you believe that same-sex couples are less valid, less equal, and less deserving. Such a position is untenable with any claim that one is 'fair-minded.'"Kate Kendall, Executive Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights

I'm pissed. I may have been a big cheerleader in the blog post I wrote for the ACLU, but personally, I'm sick of this. Sick of having to wage political campaigns to beg voters to give gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans the protections guaranteed to us by the U.S. Constitution. Sick of elected officials and politicians who say they support LGBT people but don't do anything to help (or don't do anything until they're out of office). Sick of having to forfeit the protections that most Americans take for granted, just because some small percentage of voters are afraid that their kids might go to school and find out that (GASP!) GAY PEOPLE EXIST!!!

To quote the patron saint of drag queens everywhere, this shit is bananas. B-A-N-A-N-A-S.

So I am declaring today a nationwide day of action in response to the defeat of marriage equality in Maine. The day? TODAY. Whatever day you are reading this post. The action? Let someone in power know that you want — no, that you DEMAND equality for LGBT people NOW.

The easiest thing for most of you will be to call, write, fax, e-mail or send a squadron of skywriting planes to your elected officials, telling them that you want marriage equality NOW. For some of you, the most powerful thing you can do will be something else. Maybe it's contacting your HR department and telling them that you want the company to start offering domestic partner benefits or transgender healthcare. Maybe it's calling your kids' school and telling the principal that you are appalled that they haven't adopted an LGBT nondiscrimination policy yet. Maybe it's calling your Senator and telling them that you want them to be the most outspoken leader in favor of passing the Employment Nondiscrimination Act (ENDA).

It's less important what action you take and more important that you take action TODAY. That goes double (or triple) if you are straight and cisgender (aka "not transgender"). You, my straight allies, have more power to make change than you realize. When an elected official hears from an LGBT person about LGBT equality, many of them think "well, of course...this is pure self-interest." But when they hear from you, a straight ally, they realize that ALL voters are getting sick of LGBT people being treated as second class citizens.

DO NOT BE SHY about telling whoever you contact that you are straight. You get a certain amount of extra power (aka "privilege") from your straightness. USE IT! We need our allies — like the many thousands who voted to preserve our rights in Maine, Washington and Kalamazoo — to be out and proud that they are straights who love the geighs. (and lesbians. and bisexuals. and transgender folks, too.)

I'm including a few specific suggestions for people in the areas where most of my friends are, but seriously, ANY action will help. Do not let fear of doing the wrong thing stop you. Do not let any lack of knowledge about the issues stop you. Do not let ANYTHING stop you. We need you support. You. The one in your seat right now, reading this post. The one who just thought "oh, he doesn't mean me." Yes, YOU! Take action. Right now.

When we finally win, we'll have a fabulous party, and buy you a drink. You don't want to miss THAT, do you?

Suggested Actions:

For New Yorkers
Call, write, fax or e-mail the leadership of the New York State Senate and demand that they hold a vote on same-sex marriage NOW. Due to the craziness in Albany, this means three men. They are:

Senator Malcolm Smith
Senate President
Office of New York State Senator Malcolm A. Smith
909 Legislative Office Building
Albany, NY 12247
Tel: (518) 455-2701 / Fax: (518) 455-2816
Email: masmith@senate.state.ny.us

Senator Pedro Espada, Jr.
Majority Leader
420 Capitol
Albany, NY 12247
Tel: (518) 455-3395
Fax: (518) 426-6858
Email: espada@senate.state.ny.us

Senator John Sampson
Democratic Conference Leader
409 Legislative Office Building
Albany, NY 12247
Tel: (518) 455-2788
Fax: (518) 426-6806
Email: sampson@senate.state.ny.us

For New Jersey
 Call, write, fax or e-mail your officials in Trenton and demand that they vote on same-sex marriage NOW. You can find their contact information here.






For Illinois
Call, write, fax or e-mail your officials in Springfield and demand that they pass civil unions NOW. You can find their contact information here.






For California
Call, write, fax or e-mail your officials in Sacramento and demand that they put a measure on the ballot to repeal Proposition 8. You can find their contact info here.

If you have suggestions for other states/areas/actions, please put them in the comments!

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